Do you mean this error?
Your Connection is not private
That's because you're linking to your site via HTTPS, and we do not yet have a way to provide SSL certificates to mapped domains (we are working on that).
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With regards to "wordads wont pay," that's because you shut off your ads via Settings -> WordAds in your blog's Dashboard way back in July and your account balance is well below the current minimum payout amount.